I play fair and can hold my own in against my peers in my chosen arena. I develop confidence, refine my intentions, and make progress by being prepared to put my desires, beliefs, ideas, or skills to the test or put my money where my mouth is. I am empowered by healthy competition and I transform through preparedness.


Deadly friendship sins:

1. Bad-mouthing all her potential dates bcause you cant bear d tot of losing her to a guy.
2. COMMON CRUSHES !!
3. Lying tt she "doesnt" look hot in tt dress shes trying-bcause u secretly want to buy it fer urself.
4. Encouraging her to try out a drastically different hairdo only bcause ure too chicken to try it first.
5. Poaching her ex-bf(d one ure always had a crush on) while dey're "taking a break" to work things out.
6. Asking ur friend out fer dinner as a backup plan in case d date wit ur crush falls thru.
7. Forgetting all abt your friend waiting on d 2nd line when a 2nd caller rings wit juicy gossip.
8. Not-so-secretly lusting aft d current love of her life.
9. Spilling her secrets to get bk at her aft an arguement-some things just canot b retracted.
10. Conveniently "forgetting" to invite her to your party bcause ure afraid she'd steal ur limelight.
11. Urging her to cut work to acc you on a shopping spree.
12. Stealthily reading her diary-recounting d best bits to other friends.
13. DEFINITE NONOS :
    competitive dating
    competitive dieting
    competitive dressing
14. Bringing a tub of Ben&Jerry's evrytime u drop by-bcause u secretly envy her fantastic figure!
15. Losing contact simply bcause u couldnt find time in ur bz schedule. Make time!!
16. Getting competely wrapped up in ur lastest relationship and forgetting to kip in touch.
17. Emotional blackmail--"you'd do this if u really appreciated me as a friend" that is just law
    

(We've all commited one,whether intentionally or otherwise. Make sure YOU're not the toxic friend-and rid urself of thes ghastly gaffes now.)


Things that make him sizzle :

1. His sweet caing side when hes playing wit babies,kids or even his pets.
2. HOt bod. "nuff said"
3. MUSICIANS- drummers,guitarist,singers. Theres just sth abt musicians tt makes us go weak in d kness.
4. Bad boys,we have to admit! Breaking d rules just fer you-who can resist tt?
5. Mysterious guys- you nv noe what u'll get,and it just kip u wanting to noe more.
6. Holding ur hand while crossing d road,or gently tugging u to make sure ure safe frm traffic-it's d little things.
7. We love a man who loves his food, especially hes not afraid to get into d kitchen n whip some up fer us. Utterly delicious!
8. The 3Cs - Charm,Confidence, Charisma.
9. The out-of-bed, I-just-cant-b-bothered look simply screams SEXY !!
10. There's th manly and irresistible abt sideburns.
11. That twinkle in his eye; tt conspirtorial smile..it's sexy when he always has sth mischievous and unexpected up his sleeve!
12. Their goofy antics tt nv fail to crack you up.
13. Sharp wit and intelligence sure turns up d heat.
14. Absent-minded moments when hes competely in his own world.
    
15. Sweeping you off your feet wit tt passionate lip-lock!
16. Prominent veins along his forearm....Mmmmacho!
17. Those piercing eyes tt share right into you.
    
    (Thats what exactly makes gerls heart race,head turn and fills our stomach with butterflies. aint i right?) hahs.